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RSVP and messaging

Invite everyone in their own language. Every reply counts itself.

Invitations, reminders, event-day messages and the thank-yous go out by WhatsApp or SMS. Guests answer with one click, and the answer is already in your guest list. The few who have not replied are already gathered in a list: call them yourself or hand the list to your mum.

  • WhatsApp with reply buttons
  • SMS for Israeli numbers
  • Hebrew, Russian, English
  • Calling lists you share
A young couple on a white sofa looking at a phone together and smiling

Try it as a guest

Your guests answer inside the chat, and you see it count

Tap a reply in the phone. The guest list beside it moves at the same moment, the way your panel does when a real guest answers. No app, no account, no link to open.

  • עברית
  • Русский
  • English

Try it as a guest: tap a reply

Elena & YonatanWedding invitation

Elena & Yonatan invite you…

Thursday 18.06 · 19:00

Open the invitation site
11:30

From the first notice to the last thank-you

Four messages, each at its own time

Each kind of message has its own page, its own audience rule and its own text in every language. Scroll and watch the guest’s phone change.

  1. Months ahead

    Save the date

    A short notice so guests keep the day free, with or without a link to your event page. It asks nothing yet, on purpose: answers open with the invitation.

  2. When RSVP opens

    The invitation

    A personal invitation with reply buttons. A yes is followed by one question, how many adults and children, and the answer is saved. A family on one invitation is asked whether the answer covers everyone, by name.

  3. On the day

    The event-day reminder

    Time, venue and table, sent only to the guests who said yes. A guest without a table yet reads a friendly line in their own language instead.

  4. After the event

    The thank-yous

    Only to the guests recorded as having come, with a journal of who was thanked and how, and a warning before a gallery-access send goes to a guest you already thanked in person.

Channels and languages

The right message, in the right language, through the channel that reaches them

No machine translation and no guessing which guest gets what: every rule here is decided before anything is sent.

  • A written text for each language

    Hebrew, Russian and English each have their own text, never a machine translation. Grandma reads it in Russian, the groom’s friends in Hebrew.

  • WhatsApp to any number, SMS only to Israeli ones

    SMS goes through a local Israeli gateway, so it is offered only for +972 numbers. Guests abroad get WhatsApp, and a bulk SMS run tells you how many it skipped.

  • Everyone, or exactly who you pick

    Send to the whole list, or filter by reply, side or WhatsApp status, search by name and tick guests one by one.

  • What you read is what goes out

    For invitations, save-the-dates, cancellations and gallery access, the send queue shows the approved WhatsApp message exactly as the guest will receive it, with your names, date and venue filled in.

  • Undelivered is never charged

    A message that does not reach a guest is not counted against your package. Fix the number and send again at no cost. One table lists everything that did not arrive.

  • Every answer shows where it came from

    Replies from WhatsApp, from the invitation site and from a phone call land in the same list, each labelled, with a history per guest.

An older man with a kippah on a white balcony smiling at his phone

The WhatsApp assistant

Guests ask in the chat. The answer comes from your site.

A guest who writes to the number gets a menu in their own language: Hebrew, Russian or English. It covers a question about the event, changing their reply, the photo album and more. Questions are answered only from your published event site, with the section it came from.

  • Answers quote your published site, never a draft or a hidden section
  • No answer found: the guest gets your site’s link instead of a guess
  • Changing a reply opens the guest’s personal link

Calling rounds

For the guests who have not answered: a ready list for you, or someone you trust

Some guests will not answer a message. The calling list gathers exactly them, so following up is easy: you, or the parent or friend you hand a round to, call from your own phone and mark each answer with a tap.

  1. Round 1

    Save the date

    Everyone nobody has told the date to yet, and everyone whose save-the-date never arrived.

  2. Round 2

    No answer yet

    The guests still without a reply after the messages. Coming opens a headcount and writes a real answer, so the list and the seating move at once.

  3. Round 3

    Thank-yous

    Everyone who came and has not been thanked yet, by attendance as you recorded it.

A smiling woman with short silver hair on the phone at a white kitchen table, ticking a printed list

Hand the list to Mum, without giving her access to the whole platform

Share the call list mints a private, labelled link that opens only the rounds you tick, for as long as you choose, up to 60 days. Switching it off is immediate.

  • Names, numbers and party sizes, and one tap per outcome
  • No editing, no export, no sending, no other page
  • The activity log shows who closed which records
Mum’s call listNo answer yet4 left to call
  • Галина Шапиро052 ··· 4417
  • דוד אזולאי054 ··· 2093
  • Yael Cohen050 ··· 7781
  • Мария Ковалёва053 ··· 6150
Mum closed 17 records

The call goes from the caller’s own phone

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Messages, replies and calls

Six chats to chase, or one list that fills itself

How replies are usually collected today, next to how the same work goes in InviteBerry.

The jobThe usual wayWith InviteBerry
InvitationsA WhatsApp group or a forwarded imageReplies scatter across private chats and voice notes.A personal invitation per guest, with reply buttons that save the answer.
LanguagesOne text for everyoneHalf the family reads the invitation in a language they struggle with.A written text for Hebrew, Russian and English, sent per guest.
RemindersReminding by handScrolling chats to work out who still has not answered.Send again only to a filtered selection: no reply yet, one side, not on WhatsApp.
Phone follow-upA separate RSVP serviceAnswers come back as a report you merge into your list by hand.You or a parent call from your own phone, and each outcome lands in the list right away.
Event dayA last-minute group messageGuests ask for their table at the entrance.Time, venue and table, only to the guests who said yes.
Thank-yousA note in someone’s phoneNobody is sure who was already thanked.Thank only the guests who came, with a journal of who got what.
Chats, reports and notesOne guest list

Built for

Who this is for

  • Couples and families

    One guest list in two or three languages, and a dashboard that answers “who is coming?” at any moment.

  • Parents and grandparents who make the calls

    A link with only their round on it: names, numbers and big buttons, nothing to break.

  • Bar and bat mitzvah families

    Three generations on one list, texts written for a bar mitzvah, not for a wedding.

  • Planners and venue coordinators

    Sends and follow-ups for several events, with editors who see only what their role needs.

Also in the box

  • Included

    Printable invitation

    A print-ready card typeset from your published site: names, date, venue and schedule.

  • Enabled per event

    AI site translation

    Write your invitation site in one language and AI drafts the missing ones, marked for you to review.

  • Included

    Team roles

    Owner, editor, host and photo moderator, so every helper sees only what their role needs.

  • Included

    Activity log

    Who did what and when, kept for a year, for everyone working on your event.

  • Paid add-on

    Reception desk

    Whoever meets your guests types the name a guest gives, finds the party, says the table, marks everyone in with a tap and writes down anyone not on the list.

  • Paid add-on

    Live screen

    Guest photos that passed screening play as a slideshow on the venue projector.

  • Included

    Photo screening

    Every upload is checked automatically and, by default, waits for you to publish it.

  • Coming soon

    Find photos of me

    Guests will find the photos they appear in. It is switched off for now and is coming soon.

  • Enabled per event

    Backup SMS

    A WhatsApp that is not delivered within an hour goes again by SMS to the guest’s Israeli number, once.

  • Included

    Not delivered

    One table of every message that did not reach a guest, across all six kinds, ready to fix and resend.

  • Included

    Calendar and Waze in the reply

    The thank-you for a yes carries calendar links and, when the venue has an address, a Waze link.

  • Included

    A contact for guests

    Name a person guests can write to; the assistant adds them to its answers, and they are told first.

The organiser panel

Messages, replies and calls, side by side

The three tabs of the panel this page is about.

Send to everyone, or only the people you pick

Save the dates, invitations, event-day reminders and thank-yous, by WhatsApp or SMS. Each guest gets the text written for their language.

  • Everyone, or a hand-picked list filtered by side, reply or WhatsApp status
  • A written text for each language, never a machine translation
  • An optional personal link, and an unsubscribe link in every message
inviteberry.com/admin/messages/invitesExample
Bride’s sideNo reply yetOn WhatsApp
ChannelWhatsAppSMSHERUEN
Send to 38 guests

Questions

Questions about replies and messages

Tap a question to see the answer

  • You do, or whoever you hand a round to, such as a parent or a friend, right from their own phone. The calling list has the names and numbers ready, and one tap marks each answer.

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