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Bar and bat mitzvah

The morning at the synagogue and the evening with everyone you love. In one place.

The invitation with its own website, the replies, the grandmother who never answers WhatsApp, the table, the photos and the thank-yous. For a bar mitzvah or a bat mitzvah, in Hebrew, Russian and English.

Try the invitation first

From the date to the thank-you

Everything the family tells its guests, and everything that comes back

Scroll: the screen beside the text changes with it.

  1. Months ahead

    Save the date, with the Hebrew date

    A first message tells everyone to keep the day free. The invitation can carry the Hebrew date under the date, and the organiser says if the day starts after sunset.

  2. Weeks ahead

    One invitation with its own website: the ceremony and the party

    A personal invitation by WhatsApp or SMS, in each guest’s language, with the schedule and the place on the site behind it. SMS reaches Israeli numbers only.

  3. As the answers arrive

    The reply in one tap, with the questions this day needs

    Coming or not, how many, and the ceremony: all of us, or how many. Kosher and mehadrin meals, children’s meals and a teen mark are questions you switch on.

  4. The morning

    A reminder with directions and the table number

    On the day the guest gets a reminder, with a Waze link and a calendar link after saying yes, and the table once the seating is set.

  5. At the party

    The guests’ photos on the hall’s screen

    Photos the guests upload during the party pass the automatic check and play on the hall’s projector a couple of minutes later, with a QR code that brings the next table into the album. A paid add-on.

  6. After

    Thank-yous, and the album

    The thank-you round starts from who really came. The photos from the day sit in one shared album behind a sign-in. Coming soon: an album builder and ordering a printed book.

Live demos

Try the features

Everything here works right on the page. Nothing is saved, and nothing is sent.

Make the card

Pick the event, type the names, choose one of the designs and the language: the card follows as you go.

Answer as a guest

Tap a reply in the invitation: the organiser’s list counts it at once. Switch the guest’s language below.

The album guests open

Like a photo, save it to a folder only you see, or pick a few to download. Included with every event.

Build the event site

Pick one of the site builder’s eleven themes, the event, the names, the date and the sections: the preview rebuilds at once.

Seat them by drag

Drag a guest or a whole party onto a table, or tap the armchair to choose one. A table that is too small says so.

Messages on WhatsApp

Pick the message: invitation, reminder, event-day message or thank-you. Each goes to its own guests by default. Check how it looks in WhatsApp and send; here the queue only pretends.

Add an expense

Add a category, record a payment, and watch paid, left and the totals follow.

Keep track of the gifts

Mark each guest’s gift as money or an item and type the amount: you see at once who gave what was expected, less, or nothing yet, and the totals follow.

For every guest

This is how your guests will see it

Big buttons, plain words, their own language, so the grandmother taps a reply as easily as the cousin. No app to install and no account to create. Try it: tap an answer and watch the count change.

  • עברית
  • Русский
  • English

Try it as a guest: tap a reply

NoamMitzvah invitation

We invite you to Noam’s mitzvah

Thursday 18.06 · 3 Tammuz

Open the invitation site
11:30

Two celebrations

One plan, with texts and themes made for each celebration

Choose the type once, and the default texts and the invitation themes follow it. The same tools, the same panel, the same plan.

Bar mitzvah

The invitation texts and the thank-you are worded for a bar mitzvah, and three invitation themes are made for it. Wherever the ceremony is: a synagogue, the Kotel, a hall or a garden.

Bat mitzvah

The invitation texts and the thank-you are worded for a bat mitzvah, and three invitation themes are made for it. Wherever the ceremony is: a synagogue, the Kotel, a hall or a garden.

What the family sets, for either

  • Three themes each

    Three invitation-site themes are made for a bar mitzvah, and three for a bat mitzvah.

  • Texts written for the day

    The default invitation and thank-you texts follow the type you choose, in Hebrew, Russian and English.

  • Ceremony and party

    One invitation site with the schedule and the place, and one question on the reply: the ceremony, all of us or how many.

The usual way, and this one

Six places to check, or one.

How a bar or a bat mitzvah usually gets organised, next to how it works in InviteBerry.

The jobThe usual wayWith InviteBerry
InvitationsA printed card plus a WhatsApp groupCousins in three countries get three versions.A personal invitation by WhatsApp or SMS in each guest’s language, with default texts written for a bar or a bat mitzvah.
RSVPA phone RSVP service or a call to everyoneAnswers come back as a list you merge, and nobody asked about kosher or the ceremony.A one-tap reply, with the ceremony, kosher, children and teen answers in your guest list.
SeatingAn Excel chartRedo it every time grandmother’s table changes.Groups for classmates and cousins, keep-apart rules and a printable chart.
Gifts and thanksAn envelope tally in a notebookWho gave what, and who is thanked, lives in someone’s head.Gifts and attendance per guest, and a thank-you round that starts from who really came.
PhotosA WhatsApp group and a drive folderThe best photos sit on forty phones.One shared album behind a sign-in, with automatic screening.
AlbumA studio’s printed bookDownload, sort and upload everything again.Coming soon: an album builder for a printed book from the shared album, and ordering it.
Six tools, six loginsOne panel

The organiser panel

What a parent does here, week by week

Four of the things this day needs most. Tap a tab.

Every reply, the moment it arrives

Answers from WhatsApp, SMS, the invitation site and phone calls land in one guest list, with how many people each guest brings.

  • Attending, waiting and not coming, counted for you
  • Each answer shows how it arrived: a message, the site or a call
  • Each guest's RSVP history, answer by answer
inviteberry.com/admin/guestsExample
All 142Attending 118Pending 24
  • Noa LeviENAttending+1
  • Дима ВолковRUAttending+2
  • אורי כהןHEAttending
  • Maya PeretzENPending
  • Игорь СоколовRUAttending+1
  • תמר אזולאיHEPending

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Three generations dancing in a circle under string lights in a hall

The evening

Who arrived, where do they sit, what is on the wall

The hall at night has two tools of its own. Both are paid add-ons.

  • Paid add-on

    At the door

    A cousin or a hired hostess opens a private link, finds each guest, says the table and marks them in. Walk-ins can be added on the spot.

  • Paid add-on

    On the wall

    Photos the guests upload during the party pass the screening and play as a slideshow on the hall’s projector, with a QR code that leads back to the gallery.

Built for

Who makes the day happen

The day belongs to the family, and the work is shared out by a link or a role, never by handing over your login.

  • The parents of the celebrant

    They own the event: send the invitations, watch the replies come in and thank everyone after.

  • The grandmother or the aunt who makes the calls

    She gets a private calling-round link and the list of who to ring. She never sees the rest of the panel.

  • The relative or friend who helps

    An editor works on the list, the seating and the messages. A host follows along, reads the list and the plan and records what each guest gave.

  • The person at the door of the hall

    A hired hostess or a cousin with the reception-desk link finds each guest, says the table and marks them in. A paid add-on.

Also in the box

  • Enabled per event

    WhatsApp assistant

    Guests RSVP by tapping a reply in WhatsApp, and the assistant answers their questions from your published event site.

  • Included

    Calling rounds

    For the guests who have not answered: a ready list to work through from your own phone, each answer marked as you go. Or hand it to someone you trust with a private link.

  • Paid add-on

    Live screen

    Guest photos that passed screening play as a slideshow on the venue projector.

  • Paid add-on

    Reception desk

    Whoever meets your guests types the name a guest gives, finds the party, says the table, marks everyone in with a tap and writes down anyone not on the list.

  • Included

    Photo screening

    Every upload is checked automatically and, by default, waits for you to publish it.

  • Coming soon

    Printed album

    Coming soon: an album builder and a photo book from the best of the shared gallery, printed and delivered.

  • Enabled per event

    AI site translation

    Write your invitation site in one language and AI drafts the missing ones, marked for you to review.

  • Included

    Printable invitation

    A print-ready card typeset from your published site: names, date, venue and schedule.

  • Coming soon

    Find photos of me

    Guests will find the photos they appear in. It is switched off for now and is coming soon.

  • Included

    Hebrew date line

    A second line under the date on the invitation: in letters on a Hebrew page, in digits with the month name on an English or Russian one. You say if the day starts after sunset.

  • Included

    Kosher, children’s and teen answers

    Kosher and mehadrin meals, children’s meals and a mark for a teen under 18, as questions you switch on in the reply.

Questions

Everything you might ask, before you join.

Tap a question to see the answer

  • Every guest gets one invitation and one reply. The ceremony is a question in it: the guest keeps “all of us” ticked, or unticks it and says how many. The dashboard totals it, next to the party headcount.

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